Saturday, February 4, 2012

Illinois Couple Lets Facebook Poll Choose Baby's Name


[Hidden Blog note: I think this is fantastic. Parents who are open-minded about their baby's name, seem likely to be pretty non-controlling, more open to their child finding the life path that works best for her.]

CRYSTAL LAKE, Ill. (CBS) — The votes are in, and a newborn in Crystal Lake has her name.
As WBBM Newsradio’s Regine Schlesinger reports, last fall, Dave and Lindsey Meske couldn’t agree on a name for the daughter they were expecting. He wanted Madelyn, but she preferred McKenna.
So they turned to the Facebook community to settle the deadlock.
“With Facebook being such a huge part of our culture now, this is something that it’s kind of going to,” Dave Meske said.
On a poll page, Facebook users could vote for one of four names – the two the Meskes wanted, or two others – Emily and Addilyne.
More than 4,200 people voted, some from as far away as Germany, New Zealand and Iceland.
Madelyn turned out to be the winning name with 1,310 votes, edging Emily by just about 50 votes.
The baby was born early Tuesday. True to their word, the Meskes abided by the decision of the Facebook judges, and Madelyn Rae Meske is now the baby’s name.

Real Life Insurance Claims


Courtesy of Dena, who passed along these actual reports from insurance claim inspectors:
·         "The pedestrian ran for the pavement, but I got him."
·         The claimant had collided with a cow. The questions and answers on the claim form were - Q: What warning was given by you? A: Horn. Q: What warning was given by the other party? A: Moo. 

Sesame Street - You're Alive

Why did this childhood memory come into my head? Who cares?

Top this, Schoolhouse Rock.

Incredible educational nuggets in here that no child should be left struggling to solve on their own. 

Game 6 Winning Home Run Reaction

Even as a Cubs fan, I can't help but love a roomful of deliriously happy people.

Thursday, February 2, 2012

How Fit Are You? Three Simple Tests To Find Out


Courtesy of Men's Health:
Ask 10 experts for their definition of fitness, and you’ll hear 10 different answers. That’s because how you define the word depends on the type of performance you expect. Some athletes need to develop a particular type of fitness over all others—powerlifters at one extreme, marathoners at another—but most of us are at our best when we achieve balanced fitness. In other words, we’re good at everything a healthy, active man needs to be able to do.
On these points the experts agree: You need core stability. You need lower-body strength and power to run, jump, and lift heavy objects off the ground. You need torso strength to lift your own body weight in repeated challenges. And you need enough endurance to run a mile without stopping for defibrillation.
That’s why we asked our experts to create seven fitness tests that will help you assess the shape you’re in. Start with the three challenges below, which measure core and upper-body strength—areas guys generally care about most. (You can see all 7 fitness tests in Are You MH Fit?) But don't just do these exercises once; make them part of your regular workout and you'll quickly broaden your shoulders, build your biceps, and chisel your torso. And become as fit as you've ever been. 
And don’t aim for average. Keep working at these exercises until you're not just fit, but Men’s Health Fit. Let the games begin.

Fitness Test #1: Core Stability

Fitness begins in the middle of your body. That’s also where it ends, if your core isn’t strong and stable. Not only do the muscles in your torso defend your spine against unwanted movements—the twists and jolts that produce injuries—but they also enable the movements you do want. They’re the linchpins that allow coordinated actions of your upper- and lower-body muscles.
So we’ll start with the plank, a fundamental test of core stability and endurance. The average guy should be able to hold a basic plank for 60 seconds, says strength coach Nick Tumminello. If you aspire to be Men's Health Fit, you should be able to do a more challenging version for the same amount of time.
You’ll need something long, solid, light, and straight, like a broom handle or dowel. Assume a basic plank position, with your weight resting on your forearms and toes. Your body should form a straight line from neck to ankles. You want your feet hip-width apart and your elbows directly below your shoulders.
Have a friend set the dowel along your back. It should make contact at three points: the back of your head, between your shoulder blades, and your tailbone. Hold that position. Stop if your body loses contact with the dowel at one of these three points.
If you can hold your position for 60 seconds, stop and rest for two minutes. Then do the plank with your feet on a bench. (You won’t be able to use the dowel, because it will slide off.)
Nailed it? Rest two minutes and try this version: With your feet back on the floor, move your arms forward so your elbows are beneath your eyes instead of your shoulders. If you can hold this one for 60 seconds, congratulations: You’re Men's Health Fit.
Planks are a big part of the 2012 Spartacus Workout, which readers are calling their favorite workout ever. The best part is its simplicity—all you need are dumbbells, a stopwatch, and some serious grit. Are you tough enough to try it?
THE SCORECARD
Below average: You can’t hold a basic plank 60 seconds
Average: You go 60 seconds
Above average: You can hold a plank 60 seconds with your feet elevated on a bench
Men's Health Fit: You can hold a plank with your arms extended for 60 seconds
Fitness Test #2: Pushups
The bench press is the best size- and strength-building exercise for your chest. And yet the lowly ground-based pushup actually works more muscles, even if it doesn’t allow you to hit certain ones with maximum intensity.
Like the bench press, the pushup works your chest, shoulders, and triceps to exhaustion. It’s also a core exercise, forcing muscles in your abdomen, hips, and lower back to work hard to keep your spine in a safe position. But the biggest benefit of the pushup may be the way it forces the web of muscles surrounding your shoulder blades to man up and support your shoulder joints, which can become dysfunctional on a steady diet of bench presses.
This test, courtesy of Martin Rooney, one of the world's top strength and conditioning coaches, may be humbling for you, particularly if you’re at your best with your back on a bench and a barbell in your hands. Assume a pushup position with your hands directly below your shoulders, your feet hip-width apart, your weight resting on your hands and toes, and your body in a straight line from neck to ankles.
Lower your body until your chest is about an inch above the floor, pause for 1 second (this is essential), and then return to the starting position. Complete as many consecutive pushups as you can while maintaining strict form.
THE SCORECARD
Below average: Fewer than 15 pushups
Average: 16 to 29 pushups
Above average: 30 to 44 pushups
Men's Health Fit: 45+ pushups

Fitness Test #3: Chinups

Just as the bench press has replaced the pushup in many exercise programs, so has the lat pulldown replaced the chinup. And that’s a shame. Both exercises hit the featured muscles in the upper and middle back—the lats, lower trapezius, and rear deltoids—but the chinup goes lower and deeper. Because you’re hanging from a bar rather than sitting on a padded seat, you force muscles in your middle back to work with the muscles in your hips and lower back to keep your spine in a safe position.
“Chinups are a great test of upper-body strength and endurance, core stability, and spinal stabilization,” says Men’s Healthadvisor Alwyn Cosgrove, C.S.C.S., coauthor of The New Rules of Lifting for Abs.Pulldowns are certainly easier, but as with so many things in life, limited effort produces limited rewards.
Grab a chinup bar using a shoulder-width, underhand grip. Hang at arm’s length. Pull your chest up to the bar, pause for 1 second, and then slowly lower your body back to the starting position and repeat. A repetition counts only if you start from a dead hang with your arms straight.
THE SCORECARD
Below average: Fewer than 3 chinups
Average: 3 to 7 chinups
Above average: 8 to 10 chinups
Men's Health Fit: More than 10 chinups

Wednesday, February 1, 2012

High School Player Scores Uncontested Layup At Own Basket To Lose Game

My coach's stomach just about fell onto the ground when I read this headline. Then I saw the video. Ohhh. In a tournament game, no less.

http://sports.yahoo.com/blogs/highschool-prep-rally/charlotte-school-loses-player-scores-uncontested-layup-own-165946327.html

Thanks In, Thanks Out

For better or worse, a little appreciation goes a long way with me.

Hidden Bloggers saw my post early in the week sharing an unexpected note from a friend sharing in specific detail how I've had a positive impact on his life. It's the kind of note that would make a father's heart melt if it came from his son. In my case, well, the same.

A couple days later one of my tutoring students laid into me the same way, giving me a card of gratitude and a kindly worded note. He also gave me a gift certificate to Chili's, which gave Dena and I a chance to have a leisurely dinner together.

As a side note, I'm glad that we've come to enjoy 4:30 dinners out on Saturdays. It avoids the rush. It allows us to sit in a restaurant quietly and talk about our future, the week past and to come, and about life philosophy in general with no distractions.

A couple of co-workers in mentoring relationships with me have had good weeks and paid me with thanks as well. Over the months, each has dealt with stressful professional challenges. Fortunately these obstacles are familiar to me from years of mistakes of my own. I'm lucky to work for a company that strongly supports mentoring programs. And also to have lived long enough to not only have experiences to offer for their perspective, but practice in delivering it without getting too windy (I hope). The fact that several people request to be mentees of mine every year, and now the company is entrusting me with more and more direct reports, is a satisfying affirmation of the gifts God's given me.

Got a chance to play some touch football on Sunday. And to play quarterback for my team the whole time. This means that I get to claim that I got "exercise" with practically no running or collisions involved. Check. It has been a fun way to meet some new people as well. My next door neighbor who coordinated it is another blessing to us.

The basketball team completed a 4-game winning streak over the weekend. Regardless of our final record, there's no question to this point that it's the best team I've ever coached, by the definition of team that measures a teen's development into a man. Coach asked me if I'd stick around after practice and put the balls away after the guys did some post-practice shootaround. Watching them horse around with so much joy and silliness, launching trick shots and teasing each other, was another family bonding moment.

This week brings another new tutoring student or two. My resolutions to dream daily and find a new job have been right on schedule. However intimidating it might have been to get only one shot at passing the qualifying tutor certification exams for the Wyzant web site was wildly exaggerated in the end. Open-book, and only ten questions apiece.

I could've kept this to a one-paragraph post and that would have been plenty: It's literally the middle of winter in Illinois, and I'm about to walk out into 50 degree temperatures. The last calendar year has been the best weather I can remember. The smiles of spring are just around the corner.