Saturday, July 2, 2011

Invisible Support

"Support can be characterized in two completely different ways... I show 'visible' support every time I tell her she looks great, or that she's supertalented... The second is called 'invisible' support. It's what happens when, instead of giving Sue advice, I just sit back and listen. Invisible support could even include vacuuming the apartment or washing the dishes without being asked." - John Lutz, 30 Rock

The challenge for guys often isn't to come up with solutions, but to resist the urge to do so. It isn't to be noticed, it's to be unnoticed.

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