Saturday, July 2, 2011

Old Solutions Are The Best

From Men's Health:

When your partner is upset but isn't clear about what she wants from you, do you...

A. Start drawing up solutions to her problems
B. Remind her of times she has solves problems for yourself

Answer: B. Drawing up solutions may feel constructive, but it also might make her feel powerless. Tell her that you believe in her, and point out times in the past when she effectively addressed similar problems.

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