Three Things People Most Want Out Of Life

“There is a wonderful axiom about the three things people most want out of life: happiness, freedom and peace of mind. Interestingly, these things are usually attained when we give them away.”

It makes sense to me.

Happiness and peace of mind are closely knit.

What makes a person happy? Volunteer service, for one. Faces light up with gratitude at the homeless shelter when a meal is served. Surprising a loved one with a note, or an unexpected chore completed. A hug.


Peace of mind can be given freely too, on our part. When we do exactly what we promise to do. When we show up early for an important event. When we offer a pat on the back, or an encouraging word. When we simply listen quietly and empathetically, without judgment.


Freedom to our children, spouse, co-workers, friends. To try something new. To try something that feels like a risk to us, or less than ideal to us. To learn the lessons of life through experience rather than lecture. To respect their beliefs. Sometimes, to let them disappear. We're here for them, but not on top of them.


Studies have shown it - we reap what we sow. Life's boomerangs are many. I've seen it firsthand. I hope you can too.