"Use the secret rule: No advice or declarative statements. Questions only." - Susan Scott
The people I'm most likely to approach are the ones who listen, and help me find my way by asking questions that explore the options. Although I often slip up, being considered "approachable," "non-judgmental," "encouraging," or "open-minded" are strong motivators for me, and I try to look upon contrary views with fascination and understanding rather than welling up the urge to change that person. After all, that person could easily find even more things worth changing about me.
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