Saturday, February 21, 2009

He Said, She Said, Me Said

"Someone's opinion of you does not have to become your reality." - Les Brown

Who knows us better than ourselves? Well, actually, the feedback of others can point out blind spots which if acted upon can move us forward by leaps and bounds. Still, it occurs to me that some wish I were more forceful, others more blunt, others more religious or family-centered. Learners do well, studying not only ourselves but our relationships with others. We may conform, or diverge, or give both a try. Courage comes from measuring our own values, respecting those of others, and moving boldly and openly in the direction that brings the most life out of us.

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