Wednesday, August 27, 2014

Mentutoring

Most of us know the word "synergy" to mean something about the efficient power when two or more entities combine forces and basically get in sync.

Here's a hybrid word for you: mentutoring. I know this is not a real word because spell check tries to split it into "men tutoring." But you emphasize the second syllable, men-TU-toring.

This is when a tutoring session is less about the subject matter and more about being a listening ear, or otherwise being a sympathetic mentor to the personal needs of a student.

Yesterday my student had been charged with running a mile for timing during 7th hour. It was a good 90 degrees outside. He was physically drained, and more in the mood to chatter than to learn.

The Type A part of me wants to squeeze math production out of every minute to maximize their parents' dollar, so this can't go too far. But these are teenagers, sometimes pre-teenagers. Even the adults I tutor sometimes need a mid-session break, or just don't have it working that day.

My parents gave me good genes for this aspect of "counseling" except that I don't have advice to give but more like pepping up a conversation where needed. It's one of the subtleties of the tutoring profession to gauge a student's energy level. It's one of the perks of the job.

Time to contact the U.S. patent office.

Mentutoring.


1 comment:

dyoung said...

When you have students that require that mid session break- that even emerges on the line of a counseling session? You're dealing with a right brained person! Someone who knows math is 100% worse than any totrure out there, and would rather be traveling, reading, biking, or sleeping than doing any type of reasonable or rational math problem!! Right brains unite! :)